Chris LowMay 17, 2025, 08:30 AM ET
- College shot reporter
- Joined ESPN.com successful 2007
- Graduate of the University of Tennessee
Long earlier her dad, Kalen DeBoer, arrived connected the country arsenic 1 of the apical coaches successful assemblage football, Washington's Alexis DeBoer announced herself arsenic a budding slugger connected the softball scene.
She was a 6-year-old kindergartner playing younker softball successful Carbondale, Illinois, wherever Kalen was the violative coordinator astatine Southern Illinois, 1 of the galore stops connected his mode to becoming caput manager astatine Alabama.
On this outpouring day, portion astir of the different kids were playing successful the dirt, Alexis stepped to the sheet (the coaches pitched to the kids astatine that age) and smacked a shot implicit the outfield obstruction that ricocheted disconnected her mother's Honda Pilot.
"My archetypal thought was, 'OK, possibly we person thing here,' but the small turkey deed my car," joked her mom, Nicole, emphasizing that it was 1 of those "tiny small kid fields."
Nonetheless, the pursuing week erstwhile Alexis came to bat, the coaches each yelled to the remainder of the kids, "Alexis is up. Back up and wage attention!"
Alexis is inactive belting location runs, but connected a overmuch larger tract and stage. In her archetypal play astatine Washington, she became the 2nd freshman successful programme past to deed 20 location runs connected her mode to earning Big Ten Freshman of the Year honors. On Friday she deed her 21st location tally of the play successful her archetypal NCAA tourney at-bat during a 6-3 nonaccomplishment to Mississippi State. The Huskies proceed their travel done the double-elimination determination Saturday against Brown astatine 4:30 p.m. ET connected ESPN+.
Asked astir her banner season, Alexis said, "Honestly, it's astir my teammates and coaches and each their enactment successful helping maine modulation to assemblage and knowing they're going to person my backmost nary substance however I bash connected the field."
Kalen offered a hearty laughter erstwhile told of his daughter's response.
"That's hilarious," said Kalen, the antithesis of a dependable wound instrumentality down the microphone. "But that's what we speech about, that it's easiest erstwhile you get interviewed to not conscionable speech astir yourself. You speech astir your teammates, your coaches and however large they are.
"It's ne'er astir you. It's astir the team."
One of 10 finalists for the NFCA National Freshman of the Year Award, Alexis listened and learned well. She's surviving retired her imagination of playing softball for manager Heather Tarr and the Huskies, a imagination that was kindled agelong earlier her begetter came to Washington arsenic shot manager successful 2022.
"That's what has been chill astir this full thing. She's paved her ain way," Kalen said. "I deliberation possibly radical astatine 1 point, particularly erstwhile she archetypal committed to Washington, were reasoning it was much astir me, but she's proven this was wholly astir her, and that's the mode Coach Tarr had ever approached it. She recruited Alexis for who she was arsenic a softball subordinate and a person, and it's been large to spot her bash her thing."
Alexis, who has chiefly played archetypal basal this season, leads the Huskies successful astir each violative category. Entering Friday, she was hitting .369 with 54 RBIs and had deed safely successful 15 of her past 20 games. She besides committed conscionable 1 mistake successful 51 games.
The full DeBoer household is astatine the Lubbock Regional successful Texas this play to ticker Alexis play successful her archetypal NCAA tourney and the 31st consecutive quality for Washington, a freshman-laden squad that clawed its mode into the NCAA field.
It's pugnacious to find a athletics idiosyncratic successful the DeBoer household hasn't played. Alexis' younger sister, Avery, plays volleyball and participates successful equestrian events. Kalen was a record-setting receiver successful shot astatine Sioux Falls and besides played 3 years of shot successful college. Before diving afloat clip into coaching, helium concisely played successful a semipro shot league arsenic good arsenic immoderate arena football, and helium played a play of nonrecreational shot successful an autarkic league successful Canton, Ohio.
But the astir competitory subordinate of the family, according to Alexis, is her mom.
"We each person fire. It conscionable comes retired successful antithetic ways," said Nicole, who was a two-time South Dakota High School Gatorade Player of the Year successful basketball. "But I would hold that I'm a small much spicy than the rest."
Nicole, who turned down Division I offers to enactment person to home, inactive ranks among the apical 25 scorers (1,187 vocation points) astatine Division II Augustana University successful Sioux Falls.
"She was Steph Curry earlier Steph Curry," Kalen said. "She'd travel crossed fractional court, propulsion up from 3 and motorboat it from deep. I mean, she could sprout it from anyplace connected the floor."
Only erstwhile has Kalen dared to situation Nicole connected the hoops court. They played H-O-R-S-E soon aft they met.
"I won and wasn't going to play her again due to the fact that I wanted to beryllium unbeaten against her," Kalen joked.
Nicole's retort: "I'm inactive pissed, aggravated really. He bushed maine legitimately and we haven't played since."
So, clearly, Alexis gets her competitory occurrence naturally. She said adjacent committee games with the family, particularly Clue, tin get testy.
"Usually, Kalen is making recruiting calls oregon working, but erstwhile helium plays, helium has to win," Nicole said. "He's truthful freakin' competitive."
Tarr, present successful her 21st play arsenic Washington's coach, had a bully thought what she was getting erstwhile Alexis committed to the Huskies arsenic a inferior successful precocious school. She had been successful diversion section meetings with Kalen, but much importantly, had done her homework connected Alexis, who successful crook had done her homework connected Washington's program.
While surviving successful Fresno, California, erstwhile Kalen was Fresno State's coach, Alexis attended a softball campy astatine Washington. She and Nicole adjacent took successful a Washington-Cal shot crippled portion they were successful town.
There was different necktie betwixt the DeBoers and Tarr. Sara Pickering, a Husky Hall of Famer and 1 of the top players successful Washington softball history, was an adjunct manager astatine Alexis' precocious schoolhouse (Clovis North) successful Fresno. Pickering and Tarr were teammates astatine Washington.
"Plus, it was Kalen DeBoer, truthful he's going to breed thing beauteous peculiar due to the fact that of who helium is arsenic a person," said Tarr, who guided Washington to the 2009 nationalist title and was an adjunct manager connected Team USA's metallic medal squad astatine the 2020 Tokyo Olympics. "But to beryllium capable to spot it time successful and time out, what a pro's pro Alexis is and that there's ne'er immoderate play with her, is what you privation arsenic a coach.
"She keeps everything cleanable and easy, conscionable a large teammate, and you tin manager her hard and realistically, and it's freeing to person idiosyncratic similar that connected your team."
Alexis' pathway to freshman stardom astatine Washington hasn't been easy. Given her father's vocation path, she made 7 moves crossed the state and played connected 11 question teams during that time.
"A batch of times, erstwhile Nicole and the girls could get moved erstwhile I'd get a caller job, the amended question teams had already been picked and were full," Kalen said. "It was similar she was continually having to commencement over."
But the changeless during each that question was that Alexis' hitting manager was her father. From the clip she could clasp a bat, Kalen helped make her swing. And erstwhile she came location 1 time from kindergarten with a flyer astir younker softball, things got serious.
"I knew conscionable capable to beryllium dangerous," joked Kalen, noting that Alexis was ne'er anyplace agelong capable to get entrenched with 1 coach.
Alexis said she talks to her household astir each day, and portion she and her begetter effort to support the softball speech to a minimum, she said she'll everlastingly beryllium indebted to him for ever being determination to deed her crushed balls, instrumentality her to the batting cages and connection plaything advice.
"I was truthful comfy with him, and helium ever recovered the time," Alexis said. "He ne'er pushed to wherever it wasn't fun. He taught. He didn't fto the small things slide, but helium knew what my dreams were and did everything helium could to marque those dreams travel true. Most of all, helium was a large dad."
That's wherefore Alexis told her begetter what she did erstwhile the Crimson Tide came aft Kalen with a multimillion-dollar connection to beryllium their adjacent shot coach.
Nicole said the lone imaginable holdup successful Kalen accepting the occupation was his wanting to marque definite Alexis was OK with staying connected the West Coast portion the remainder of the household headed crossed the state to Tuscaloosa.
But erstwhile helium talked with Alexis, she made it casual for everyone.
"I'm close wherever I privation to be, close wherever I'm expected to be," Alexis told her dad. "I cognize however important this is for you, what a large occupation it is. We tin some person our ain paths."
"It was an accidental helium couldn't crook down, the benignant you're fortunate if you get erstwhile successful a lifetime," Alexis said. "He loved it astatine Washington. We each did. But it was Alabama."
Outside the DeBoer household determination mightiness person been speculation that Alexis would spell with her household and articulation Alabama's nationally ranked softball program, but she said that was ne'er a consideration.
"I ne'er privation to permission this place," said Alexis, who was already eyeing Washington erstwhile her dada was the violative coordinator astatine Indiana successful 2019. "There were nary 2nd thoughts due to the fact that I spot Coach Tarr and this coaching unit and what we're gathering here."
Kalen and Nicole person been capable to spot respective of Alexis' games this season. Coincidentally, her archetypal collegiate deed came against Alabama successful the play opener successful a tourney successful Tucson, Arizona, and her archetypal location tally came 2 days aboriginal against the Crimson Tide. DeBoer was determination for some games.
"It's large to cognize that they're there. We've ever been a adjacent family," Alexis said. "And adjacent erstwhile they're not there, I consciousness their enactment each the mode crossed the country."
And, she said, she ever tin perceive her father's acquisition -- having the close tempo, loading properly, keeping a line-drive mentality, going to the other tract -- successful the backmost of her head.
"I instrumentality a small spot of him with maine to each crippled I play, adjacent erstwhile he's not there," Alexis said.
For Kalen, being capable to conscionable beryllium a dada watching his kid play successful a postseason situation is astir arsenic fulfilling arsenic it gets. While helium won't beryllium making immoderate important decisions, determination are definite to beryllium a fewer tense moments for the full family.
"There has been a batch of attraction connected her for antithetic reasons, and she's been coagulated and accordant successful each way," Kalen said. "She's having fun. That's what you privation arsenic a parent. She's got immoderate astonishing friends there, and I can't archer you however overmuch I admit those friends, adjacent their parents, and the mode the Washington household has taken attraction of her.
"She's close wherever she's expected to be."